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Frequently Asked Questions

• What is the purpose of the site?

  Our platform connects consenting adults who want to explore more open-minded connections and interactions, in a respectful, discreet, and secure environment.

• Who can sign up?

  Any adult (18+ or the legal age in your region) can sign up, as long as they follow our rules: respect, consent, and appropriate interactions.

• Is sign-up free?

  Yes, sign-up is free. Some features (e.g., advanced filters, unlimited likes, increased visibility, etc.) may be available through a subscription or add-ons.

• How do I create a good profile?

  A good profile is:

  • Honest (intentions, availability, general preferences)
  • Clear (what you’re looking for and what you’re not looking for)
  • Respectful (polite tone, no aggressive demands)
  • Well-presented (clear photos, a short but specific description)
• What photos are allowed?

  Photos must follow our rules:

  • You must have the rights to use the images
  • No illegal, violent, harassing, or degrading content
  • We recommend clear, authentic photos
  • Depending on the site settings, some more suggestive images may be allowed, as long as they remain respectful and comply with the rules.
• Can I stay discreet?

  Yes. Depending on the options available, you can:

  • Hide your profile from non-members
  • Use a username
  • Blur certain photos or make them private
  • Control who can contact you
• How do messaging features work?

  You can like/match and then chat through the messaging system. For your safety, avoid sharing personal information too quickly (home address, workplace, etc.).

• How can I tell if a profile is real?

  We use different methods to reduce fake profiles (moderation, automated tools, optional verification).
  Tips:

  • Profiles with several consistent photos
  • Natural, ongoing conversation
  • Be cautious if someone quickly pushes you to move to an external platform
• What should I do if someone crosses my boundaries?

  You can:

  • Block the person
  • Report the profile or a message
  • Contact support if you feel unsafe or harassed
  • Disrespecting consent, pressuring others, insults, or harassment are not tolerated.
• What are the consent rules on the platform?

  Consent is required and must be:

  • Clear
  • Enthusiastic
  • Reversible (you can change your mind)
  • Respected at all times

  Any coercive, humiliating, or non-consensual content leads to sanctions.

• Are there in-person meetups?

  The platform helps people connect, but meeting offline is always your choice. We recommend:

  • A first date in a public place
  • Letting a friend know
  • Arranging your own transportation
  • Trusting your instincts
• How can I stay safe on a first meeting?
  • Choose a public place and a reasonable time
  • Set boundaries in advance
  • Avoid alcohol/drugs if you don’t feel fully in control
  • Keep your personal belongings and payment methods with you
• Is my data protected?

  We take privacy seriously: secure data, limited access, and control options (visibility settings, deletion, etc.). You can also request deletion of your account and information according to the current policy.

• How do I delete my account?

  You can usually do this in your account settings. If you can’t find the option, contact support—we’ll help you delete or deactivate your profile.

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